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Thursday, September 30, 2010
L.A.M.B. Spring 2011 RTW
OMGsh! I just love Gwen Stefani and almost everything she does. And this year she did not disappoint. For her Spring collection, she dazzled the crowd with bright, African and Caribbean inspired pieces.
Friday, September 3, 2010
"I know my parents love me..."
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Men Lie, Women Lie
Why do men cheat? Excuse me, correction, why do people cheat? After sitting down and thinking long an hard about that question, the only reason I could come up with was selfishness.
Only a selfish person would put their own wants in front of their partners feelings. Only a selfish person would go out, and seek pleasure (or companionship, or whatever they're looking for) without thinking twice about the outcome of the situation.
I feel that rather than just cheating on someone, you should decide whether you can do without that person. If you can't, then DON'T DO IT. And if you can, at least have the decency to end the relationship before you end up hurting the person beyond repair.
But I forgot, they're selfish, so they will want their cake and eat it, too.
And after the truth comes to light (and the truth ALWAYS comes to light) they constantly lie. I feel that if you are bold enough to step out, then be man (or woman) enough to admit to it.
If you didn't put the pieces together yet, I've been in this situation before. Someone else came to me with the same situation as well and it just pissed me off to know that someone can be faithful for almost 4 years and the next person can't. But I see it as a lesson learned.
I'm just venting right now, but what do you guys think about liars and cheaters?
Only a selfish person would put their own wants in front of their partners feelings. Only a selfish person would go out, and seek pleasure (or companionship, or whatever they're looking for) without thinking twice about the outcome of the situation.
I feel that rather than just cheating on someone, you should decide whether you can do without that person. If you can't, then DON'T DO IT. And if you can, at least have the decency to end the relationship before you end up hurting the person beyond repair.
But I forgot, they're selfish, so they will want their cake and eat it, too.
And after the truth comes to light (and the truth ALWAYS comes to light) they constantly lie. I feel that if you are bold enough to step out, then be man (or woman) enough to admit to it.
If you didn't put the pieces together yet, I've been in this situation before. Someone else came to me with the same situation as well and it just pissed me off to know that someone can be faithful for almost 4 years and the next person can't. But I see it as a lesson learned.
I'm just venting right now, but what do you guys think about liars and cheaters?
Tuesday, August 10, 2010
How to Save Yourself from being Stressed Out
Ok so lately I've been absolutely stressed out. For some reason I just feel like I have too much on my plate. So I sat down and thought about why I'm feeling stressed and how I can prevent feeling this way again.
1. Do Not Wait Until The Last Minute ..... for anything. Whether it's a class assignment or dropping a letter in the mailbox, doing this ahead of time will save you a lot of stress and will give you time to fix any problems that occur.
2. Do Not Take On More Than You Can Handle ..... don't do things for people because you want to be "nice" or you want to impress someone. Once there is too much on your plate, you won't be able to do anything right, and that is not impressive.
3. Breathe ..... sometimes you just have to take a chill pill. For those of us in school, after about a hour and a half of studying, take a 15 minute break, you will feel more alert once you start studying again. And for those who feel really stressed and tense just thinking about your job, take 5 minutes to just think about the good things going on in your life, and your mood will get a boost.
4. Pray.... Prayer, while some people don't believe in it really changes things. It lifts burdens off heavy hearts and allows you to talk one-on-one with The Creator. Say a quick prayer every morning giving thanks and the bad things won't seem so bad anymore.
5. Don't Think Your Problems aren't as Serious as other People's ..... when you start thinking that your issues are little compared to others, you tend to ignore them and they just grow bigger...which causes more stress. You can't be the problem solver for everyone so deal with yourself first.
6. Manage your Money .... because there is nothing worse than being 21 (or 31, or 61) with a whole bunch of credit card debt. As a student, credit cards seem like a simple way to get what you want, when you want it. but it's more complicated. If you don't have one and you don't need one, don't get one. Simple. If you have one (or more) try to pay them off every month, and start budgeting. Pay all bills (light, phone, water, credit cards, and any loans, including those from family and friends) before going shopping for things you want but don't need. Trust me, this will save you a lot of stress and give you more sleep time.
8. Save the Drama.... when you have to deal with work, school, and children on an everyday, all day basis, drama is definitely not on the agenda. If you have friends that gossip all the time and have nothing going for them except drama, let them go. And if you are in a unhealthy relationship, let that person go as well. I know it's not easy (trust me, I know) but it's better in the long run. When you don't have to deal with he said/ she said drama or an unfaithful partner, your mind is free from stress which allows you to put positive energy into the things that matter.
So that was my list of things to keep you stress free. I hope it helped! Feel free to add!
1. Do Not Wait Until The Last Minute ..... for anything. Whether it's a class assignment or dropping a letter in the mailbox, doing this ahead of time will save you a lot of stress and will give you time to fix any problems that occur.
2. Do Not Take On More Than You Can Handle ..... don't do things for people because you want to be "nice" or you want to impress someone. Once there is too much on your plate, you won't be able to do anything right, and that is not impressive.
3. Breathe ..... sometimes you just have to take a chill pill. For those of us in school, after about a hour and a half of studying, take a 15 minute break, you will feel more alert once you start studying again. And for those who feel really stressed and tense just thinking about your job, take 5 minutes to just think about the good things going on in your life, and your mood will get a boost.
4. Pray.... Prayer, while some people don't believe in it really changes things. It lifts burdens off heavy hearts and allows you to talk one-on-one with The Creator. Say a quick prayer every morning giving thanks and the bad things won't seem so bad anymore.
5. Don't Think Your Problems aren't as Serious as other People's ..... when you start thinking that your issues are little compared to others, you tend to ignore them and they just grow bigger...which causes more stress. You can't be the problem solver for everyone so deal with yourself first.
6. Manage your Money .... because there is nothing worse than being 21 (or 31, or 61) with a whole bunch of credit card debt. As a student, credit cards seem like a simple way to get what you want, when you want it. but it's more complicated. If you don't have one and you don't need one, don't get one. Simple. If you have one (or more) try to pay them off every month, and start budgeting. Pay all bills (light, phone, water, credit cards, and any loans, including those from family and friends) before going shopping for things you want but don't need. Trust me, this will save you a lot of stress and give you more sleep time.
7. Exercise..... I don't really exercise (covers eyes with shame) but I've heard that it relieves stress. Hiking, biking, running, yoga, ballet, basketball, soccer...or just go to the gym. Also, dancing is a good way to get the blood pumping and get your mind off things. So grab your girls and turn on your favorite dance album.
8. Save the Drama.... when you have to deal with work, school, and children on an everyday, all day basis, drama is definitely not on the agenda. If you have friends that gossip all the time and have nothing going for them except drama, let them go. And if you are in a unhealthy relationship, let that person go as well. I know it's not easy (trust me, I know) but it's better in the long run. When you don't have to deal with he said/ she said drama or an unfaithful partner, your mind is free from stress which allows you to put positive energy into the things that matter.
So that was my list of things to keep you stress free. I hope it helped! Feel free to add!
Thursday, July 8, 2010
Au Naturel Pt 1
Growing up with thick coarse hair, I was the butt of plenty of jokes in elementary school. My mother would not let my sisters and I apply a relaxer to our hair no matter what. After moving with my grandmother, and having no one willing to do my super thick hair in tiny plaits every week, I finally got my dose of the creamy crack. I was either 13 or 14. I'm 21 now.
As an adolescent, it seemed like everyone had a "perm" (a relaxer). And when I got older, weaves were thrown into the mix. Being different, I felt that I wasn't cute and I didn't fit in. But as an adult, it seems that what everyone was trying to achieve (i.e. long, silky smooth, euroccentic locks, baby hairs included) they no longer want it. What I'm saying is that I'm becoming more aware of the natural women around me.
A few months ago one of my sisters shocked my whole family by doing a BC (Big Chop). Now her hair is less that 1inch short. What made her do it was her desire to stop putting chemicals on her hair and scalp because it's not healthy for her hair or her body. Fine.
Now another sister of mine grew her hair natural, cutting off the relaxed ends and wearing box braids, for 2 years. When her her afro was a certain size, she relaxed it. Her goal was to "start over" with the relaxer, taking better care of her hair this time around. Ok.
I just presented you with two people who went natural for two completely different reasons. And I can relate to both. But ultimately, I think I'm going to have to stick with #teamrelaxed.
Honestly, I don't have the courage to leave my house with my own hair in it's natural state. And I'm just going based on my experience from the past. [Note: My hair is natural and has been for about a year, however, weaves, wigs and box braids has been covering up my light brown 'fro]
Solange Knowles, Chrisette Michele, even my big sis Tosha took the plunge to go out in the world au naturel. But would you? Am I making a debate out of nothing? Hmm..
Stay tuned for Pt. 2
Acceptance Denied
So the other day, a guy told me that even though he's been in community college for seven (yes 7, non-stop) years, he's not emotionally ready to graduate and move on to a 4-year university..... O_0
Speaking of school, for the past couple of days, there has been rumors that Mary J. Blige was accepted to Howard University in D.C. and will been entering the class of 2014 for Fall 2010.
Since hearing the news via Twitter, I felt excited for her. I mean, she accomplished a lot in her life, fame and fortune, and I believe it's never too late for education.
Now, here's the thing - a representative from the school denied that any of this is true. I don't see why MJB would lie on national t.v. about something like that...hmmmm....I'm waiting for the outcome...
All in all, I wish MJB the best of luck in all of her educational endeavors :)
Read More at Necole Bitchie's blog http://necolebitchie.com/2010/07/08/is-mary-j-blige-going-to-howard-she-says-yes-howard-says-no/#more-80851
Speaking of school, for the past couple of days, there has been rumors that Mary J. Blige was accepted to Howard University in D.C. and will been entering the class of 2014 for Fall 2010.
Since hearing the news via Twitter, I felt excited for her. I mean, she accomplished a lot in her life, fame and fortune, and I believe it's never too late for education.
Now, here's the thing - a representative from the school denied that any of this is true. I don't see why MJB would lie on national t.v. about something like that...hmmmm....I'm waiting for the outcome...
All in all, I wish MJB the best of luck in all of her educational endeavors :)
Read More at Necole Bitchie's blog http://necolebitchie.com/2010/07/08/is-mary-j-blige-going-to-howard-she-says-yes-howard-says-no/#more-80851
Monday, July 5, 2010
Not My Style...
So do any of you remember Beyonce's clothing line House of Dereon? Yea, me neither. Occasionally, on my way home from classes, I may stop in Dr. Jay's Ladies and there will be a wall of AppleBottom's, Dereon, Rocawear and BabyPhat. I don't even attempt to go in that area. Why? It's just not my style. And it isn't Solange's either.According to an article in Clutch, Solange is not to fond of her sister's clothing line.
Solange Says House of Dereon Isn’t Her Style Clutch Magazine: The Digital Magazine for the Young, Contemporary Woman of Color
And I don't really blame her. And I'm happy she spoke out about it.
A lot of entertainers start clothing lines that, while they are successful, they aren't very tasteful. I mean, when I buy a pair of jeans i do not want a big apple on my backside. Or a big cat made of rhinestones on the back of a winter jacket.
And what kills me the most is that I don't see these celebs wearing these tacky pieces anyways (oh except Kimora Lee, I gotta give it to her, she wears her BabyPhat jeans lol).
Beyonce claims that some of those nice dresses she wears are Dereon but I have yet to see them in stores. If they're not available to public, what's the point?
Anyways, long story short, these hood fab clothing lines are not my style.
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